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Alexander Funeral Home, Inc. is grateful to the family for entrusting your loved one’s final care and arrangements to us. Thank you for the opportunity. We solicit your continued support and prayers for the family as they navigate through this time of loss, sorrow and grief.

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  1. To the one we affectionately call “Ms. G,”

    May the memories of your father’s life bring you comfort. His legacy and the profound love he gave will remain forever. If you are any reflection of him, I know he is walking around Heaven strutting his stuff.

    My deepest condolences to those who loved him most and are impacted by his transition. Remember that God sits beside us in grief, closer than any friend, offering comfort, strength, and peace in moments when words fall short. May His presence carry you through the days ahead, and may your father’s spirit live on in every life he touched.

  2. Tracey,
    Please know we are thinking of you and your family as you navigate the bereavement of your beloved father.
    We certainly will keep you in our prayers.

  3. Thinking of you and your family. May your beautiful memories of your dad bring you peace and comfort.

  4. Daddy,
    You will certainly be missed with your ugly self (he was handsome, I’d lovingly call him that). You were a man of few words, but when you spoke you were like E.F. Hutton, you’d better listen as it was a profound statement!

    I pray that during my lifetime I made you proud to be my father. I know that you were proud of all of your daughters and our accomplishments. When I wanted to enter the Air Force, you told me that I would NOT enlist, and if I did enter, it would only be as an officer, which is why I enrolled in ROTC while in college. Despite my love of music, I changed my major to Criminal Justice, a field as you were employed in, moving through the ranks of Officer, Sergeant, Lieutenant, Captain, Major, Sr. Administrator Coordinator and Assistant Director of Detention. When you would come to visit me at the job, you were amazed by the respect and camaradie I received from my staff, peers and co-workers. There was a time two of your co-workers visited Raleigh and they didn’t believe that you had a daughter that was a Captain of the local detention facility. Per your request, I picked them up from their relatives home and took them on a tour of the Detention Center. Upon seeing the interactions and being addressed as Captain Gillians, they returned to work gossiping that you stated facts about your oldest daughter.

    I remember what you told me at Penn Station Newark as we waited in the on the platform for the train headed to Raleigh, NC to attend college: “Treat people the way you want to be treated, and you’ll go far”. I carried those words throughout my professional working career.

    Physically, I look like my mother, but when I opened my mouth….it was all you!!! FAFO if a person dared to mess with me or my siblings. When bullied at school, Mom didn’t want us to fight, to turn the other cheek is what she would say, but not Solomon Gillians, Jr. You told us: “If you don’t fight back, you’ll have to deal with me!” So we fought back, never calling Ma when we were in trouble we’d have the school to call you instead!!! To this day, I am fiercely protective over my family and will fight/advocate for them!

    Your fashion sense was definitely passed on to your children. As a parent, you always made sure we always had GOOD shoes in our feet, shining them to perfection with your shoe kit. When you’d see us the first thing you did was inspect our shoes! Your taste in shoes, clothing and hats, impeccable!!! When we went to granddaddy’s funeral and accidentally left your hatbox at the bus station, we caught hell because they were coordinated with your outfits! Luckily for us, the staff held them and returned them to me and Mom on our return trip back to school and home for Mom.

    As I wrote this tribute to you I was moved to tears because as much as I might not admit it, I am a lot like you. Your wisdom, much like the biblical King Solomon will live on through your daughters, grand and great-grandchildren.

    Take your rest, as you lived a long 90.5 years on your terms! I take comfort knowing that Rhonda, Mom, Granny and Granddaddy Gillian, Aunts Edna, Nancy, Katy and Olivia, Uncles George and Josie , your niece Patrice and nephews Harold and Johnnie welcomed you in as you transitioned.

    I love you Daddy and thank you for always loving me.

  5. My condolences on the loss of Gill known as my other father and a great friend he will truly be missed my Prayers to you and your family (SMITTY)

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